baitean rang hotie hain

Baitean rang hotie hain by Amna Yousaf

Sunnay mai bara ajeeb lagta hou ga magar yea sach hay kay larkean ahsas ke banie hotie hain. Yea wou chirya hai jo jahan shakh-e-gul daikhte hai ek jhoula dal daite hai.

Larkean paida hotie hain tou Rehmat ghar mai aa jatie hai or ALLAH TALA us insan kay leay aasaniyan paida kar daita hai jis kay ghar mai baite ke wiladat hotie hai. Chotay chotay hath or shafaf chahray mai lagie chotie chotie heeray jaise jugmug karte ankhain jo sab logoun ko tuk tuk daikhte hain or lab manou koi pankhouri. Daikhtay he daikhtay wou maa baap ke ankhoun ka tara ban jatie hai.

Thore barie hotie hain tou baitean apne batoun say sab ka dil parcha layte hain. Kabhe apne totli batoun say tou kabhe masoom harkatoun say sab ka dil moh layte hain. Jaisa kay mughy yaad parta hai, jab mughy pahli dfa pta chalay kay mairay walid-e-mohtarram ke ammie un kay paida honay kay kuch arsay baad he inteqal kar gye theen tou main nay apnay nanhay hatoun say apnay abbu kay sar ko apne chote se goud mai rakhtay howay kaha, “mai ab say ap me mama houn dady,” shid is par hassie atie hou par baitean tou kisi an-kahay dukh ko bhe samjh layte hain. Maa kay baad shayad baitean he apnay walid ko us mamta ka ahsas dilatie hain jis sy kae pidri zamnay pahlay he mehroum hou jatay hain.

Aisay mai agar mugh say koi pouch baithay tou mai kahoun, “baithean rang hotie hain!” Baiteoun kay anay say ghar mai rang aa jata hain wou roz jab kisi nayay rang kay joray mai balbos ghar mai phirte hain tou lagta hai goya koi rang-birangi title baag ke sair ko nikli hou. Apnay daman mai sharam lihaz kay sath wou kae rishtay bhe lay kar chalti hai.

Apnay baap kay leay wou ek zamanat hotie hain gar koi bhe sath chour jayay tou ap mughy hamaysha apnay pass pain gy. “Abbu yea kaisay kapray pehan leay dejay mai istari kar doun,” “is bar Eidi milay ke tou abbu kay leay koi tohfa khareed lounge hamaysha tou mairay leay thaktay hain.”

Ammie kay leay wou aik sahayli hotie hai. Wou orat jo sarie duniya say apnay dukh chupayay phirte hai bill-akhir apne baite kay agay zindagi kay tamam dukhoun ka rona roo layte hai. Par maa say baite ka aisa rishta hota hai kay kabhe bohat say kaam kar day or kabhe kahay ammie muh mai niwala bhe ap he daal deejay.

Bhai behan kay sath apnay dukh sukh bannta hai tou kabhe behan ko poura din aik nae bhabi ke dastan sunanay mai guzar jatie hai. Or behan kay leay dosri behan aik ghanay pair ke chaoun, wohie Ghana pair jo khud tou tapti dhoup ke garmi sah lay par kabhe apne chaoun mai baithay kisi insan ko na sahnay day.

Aik umar tak aik ghar ko apna bana kar chalet hai or phir achanak usay pta chalta hai kay ab bachgani harkatoun say kuch nhe hou ga, ab dosray ghar jana he hou ga!

Aik taraf aik nayay khandan ka sath tou aik taraf barsoun kay ghar say dour rahnay ka dukh. Shadi mai sara waqt muskuranay walie dulhan ko lagta hai yea us ke zindagi ka sab say pyara din hai or wou duniya mai sab say zrorie hai, par jab rukhsatie ka waqt qareeb ata hai tou larke ka dil baithnay lagta hai or baite paraya dhan hai, yea baat sabit hou jatie hai. Phir kabhe ankhain babul ko tou kabhe amma par parte hain or saray pyaray lamhoun ke film ankhoun kay samnay chalnay lagte hai. Apne ankhoun mai ansuoun ka sailab leay apna naya ghar basanay larke peaa kay dais sudhar jatie hai.

“Mai yahan kaisay rahounge? Mughy tou yea maloom bhe nhe kay in sab ko kaise batain, kaisa khana kaisa rehan-sehan pasand hai.” Aisay mai sasur mai baap, saas mai maa ko dhoundhnay lagte hai. Thoray he arsay mai wou khandan is qadar apna bana layte hai kay ahsas he nhe honay daite kay kabhe yea ghar is kay leay paraya bhe tha.

Apne zimaydarie ba-khoubi nibhatie hai, sukh ka raasta hou ya dukh ka wou apnay sathi ko nhe chourtie.

Orat ka har roub apne jagha bay-had khoubsourat hai magar maa, maa ke missal tou kaheen bhe nhe milte. Ab orat ke wohie pasand jis mai us kay bachay khush rahain. Rotiyan char or khanay walay panch hou jain tou mai aksar sochte houn,us waqt sirf aik maa ko he bhook kun nhe lagte? Aungli pakar kay chanla seekhatie hai tou tab tak ungli nhe chourte jab tak sansoun ke dor kat na jayay.

Yea orat kya hai? Kya amm hai ya khas? Shayad aam kay leay amm or khas logoun kay leay bohat he khas. Apne zaat ko kaheen pechay chour atie hai yea orat. Yea baat wou tou jantay hain jin ke zindagi mai in pyaray rishtoun ke kamie hai. Kabhe kabhe tou lagta hai larkean bohat ameer hotie hain jo itnay rishtay aik sath lay kar chaltie hain or kabhe larkean us goond ke manind lagte hain jis ke wajah say bohat say ghar aik sath juray rahtay hain. Sach hai, Hawa (A.S) ke baitean rang hotie hain.

Minjanib,

Amna Yousaf

{an article by Amna Yousaf}